July 16, 2024

The Answer To The Performance Trap

The Answer To The Performance Trap

The Answer To The Performance Trap

July 16, 2024
July 16, 2024

The Answer To The Performance Trap

The Answer To The Performance Trap

The performance trap leads to the horizontal comparison trap. The horizontal comparison trap sucks the joy from your work and can lead to death. These traps are not new - they have plagued people like us since right after the world began.

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Are you striving to become more independent? Do you think you can independently solve your biggest problems or reach a higher status on your own?

Do you relish working with others and helping other people do well, or do you more often relish doing better than others?

"Pride gets no pleasure out of having something, only out of having more of it than the next person. We say that people are proud of being rich, or clever, or good-looking, but they are not. They are proud of being richer, or cleverer, or better-looking than others. If everyone else became equally rich, or clever, or good-looking there would be nothing to be proud about.”  ― Timothy Keller, The Freedom of Self Forgetfulness

The performance trap leads to the horizontal comparison trap. The horizontal comparison trap sucks the joy from your work and can lead to death. These traps are not new - they have plagued people like us since right after the world began.

The First Workers

We see the problem with individual performance and horizontal comparison in the first few pages of the Bible. Here is the story of the first workers from Genesis Chapter 4:

Now Abel kept flocks, and Cain worked the soil. In the course of time Cain brought some of the fruits of the soil as an offering to the Lord. And Abel also brought an offering — fat portions from some of the firstborn of his flock. The Lord looked with favor on Abel and his offering, but on Cain and his offering he did not look with favor. So Cain was very angry, and his face was downcast.

Then the Lord said to Cain, “Why are you angry? Why is your face downcast? If you do what is right, will you not be accepted? But if you do not do what is right, sin is crouching at your door; it desires to have you, but you must rule over it. ”

Now Cain said to his brother Abel, “Let's go out to the field.” While they were in the field, Cain attacked his brother Abel and killed him.

Then the Lord said to Cain, “Where is your brother Abel?”

“I don't know, ” he replied. “Am I my brother's keeper?” - [.no-reftag]Genesis 4:2-9[.no-reftag]

In this narrative we see work, which was designed for good, become co-opted for selfish gain and personal glory. Work was established by God. Cain and Abel were given unique roles to rule and care for the earth and all its inhabitants. (Genesis 1:26-28 & 2:15)

Abel makes his daily work synonymous with worshiping the God who created him and gave him work to do — revealing how we can work and honor God simultaneously. God recognizes Abel favorably for his work.

The Path To Destruction At Work

Cain instead chooses a path of destruction — revealing the danger of separating our life and work from God:

  • First, Cain separates his work from worship by refusing to honor God with the best of what he had been given. Separating work from our highest purpose leads to futility.
  • Next, Cain compares his work and the results to those of his brother and becomes jealous and angry. Horizontal comparisons lead to a lack of joy and purpose.
  • After that, God communicates directly with Cain and gives him a warning and a path back to joy and purpose. Ignoring God’s word leads to death.

Cain chooses to ignore God’s perfect direction and instead decides to take matters into his own hands — choosing to murder his brother.

All of Cain’s actions are a worthless attempt to gain self significance independently. Cain ignores the love and wisdom of God and does not care to work with his brother. Cain caps off this lesson on the path to destruction by questioning if it is even his job to look out for his brother —- rejecting the design for his life which is to glorify God by ruling the earth and seeking the good of others.

From this we learn much about how we were designed to live and work. However, we will never fully understand how to work if we don’t know the source of our life and His design and purpose for us.

The Answer To Life

The path to a joy-filled life that lasts forever is not about our individual performance. We can never have a life of joy without becoming fully dependent on Jesus.

Randy Pope’s book The Answer provides an incredibly clear description of our problems and the Answer Jesus provides. He explains that there are two ways to relate to God:

There are only two ways to attempt to relate to God. Every religion falls into one of these two approaches. The first is best captured by the word ‘performance.’ We call this religion “DO.” It is based on earning God’s favor or  affection by what we do or don’t do for Him.”

This approach, which summarizes most of the world's religions – including the way we approach our earthly idols — is a self-righteous / self-reliance trap that ultimately leads to death.

Randy Pope provides this incredibly helpful diagram to illustrate the difference in how we tend to relate to God by “doing” works, versus how He intends to relate to us by the works of His Son Jesus, which are “done” for us to have life.

Randy Pope makes it that the path to life starts with God instead of our own performance. The graph explains the purpose of the life of Jesus and how we can accept what He has “done”:

1

It all starts with God. He is Creator and Redeemer through His Son, Jesus. Jesus gives the purest glory to the Father by defining grace as He covers our sin and performance gaps and leads us in His perfect truth.

The Word became flesh and made his dwelling among us. We have seen his glory, the glory of the one and only Son, who came from the Father, full of grace and truth. - John 1:14

2

Abundant life that lasts forever must be received through Jesus. Jesus must be received because He has completed the work. It is “done” through the grace of His life and death and resurrection for us.

For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith — and this is not from yourselves, it is the gift of God — not by works, so that no one can boast. For we are God's handiwork, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do. - Ephesians 2:8-10

3

God so loved the world that He sent Jesus, His only Son, into the world to save sinners  from their own performance. This is the very definition of love.

Greater love has no one than this: to lay down one’s life for one’s friends. - John 15:13

4

Through the grace and love of Jesus we are set free — free to love (John 15:17). The love of Jesus compels us — through faith and gratitude —  to do the same for others (2 Corinthians 5:14-15).

Loving others is the work we are designed and made to do, not in order to earn anything, but instead, as a response to the grace, mercy and love we have already received. This is selfless performance.

Therefore, I urge you, brothers and sisters, in view of God's mercy, to offer your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and pleasing to God---this is your true and proper worship. - Romans 12:1

The Answer To Work

Many of us who trust and depend on Jesus understand that we cannot earn the love of grace and Jesus — they are free gifts from God. Yet somehow, we can forget that our work is also a gift from God.

For we are God's handiwork, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do. - [.no-reftag]Ephesians 2:10[.no-reftag]

When we forget the very source of our life and work, we can end up working for ourselves —  for our own needs, relying on our own strength, in order to satisfy ourselves:

This is the same performance trap that puts us in a downward spiral in life. When we work this way, we have forgotten our design and purpose and instead take matters into our own hands — doing what is right as we see fit (Judges 21:25).

The best way out of the independent performance trap at work is to:

1

Remember that the same God that saves us is the one who commissions our work. Our God is unchanging and provides everything that is good, including our work.

Every good and perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of the heavenly lights, who does not change like shifting shadows. - James 1:17

2

Recognize that the grace of Jesus is a love that never stops. God our Father and Jesus are always working, providing all we need for abundant life and work.

“My Father is always at His work to this very day, and I too am working…For the Father loves the Son and shows him all he does. Yes, and he will show him even greater works than these, so that you will be amazed. For just as the Father raises the dead and gives them life, even so the Son gives life to whom he is pleased to give it. - John 5:20-21

3

Receive the peace that Jesus provides. Jesus saves us not to a life of stress and demands where we must perform, but instead gives us peace that surpasses worldly understanding, he commissions us to do the very same work that He is doing and He gives us the power to do everything — anything — that He commands us to do.

Jesus came and stood among them and said, “Peace be with you!”  After he said this, he showed them his hands and side. The disciples were overjoyed when they saw the Lord. Again Jesus said, “Peace be with you! As the Father has sent me, I am sending you.” And with that he breathed on them and said, “Receive the Holy Spirit.” - John 20:19-22

4

Ask. If your work is full of stress, or lacking purpose, or you are missing the power to do it, it’s likely not what you are supposed to be doing.  How can you be sure what you are supposed to be doing? Ask Jesus. He will give you what you need to do the greatest work to give glory to God.

“Very truly I tell you, whoever believes in me will do the works I have been doing, and they will do even greater things than these, because I am going to the Father. And I will do whatever you ask in my name, so that the Father may be glorified in the Son.” - John 14:12-13

And the glory of it all is that when we work this way together with Jesus, our friend, we will produce fruit that will last – benefiting people now and leading their souls to last in glory with the Father and Son forever and ever.

You are my friends if you do what I command. I no longer call you servants, because a servant does not know his master's business. Instead, I have called you friends, for everything that I learned from my Father I have made known to you. You did not choose me, but I chose you and appointed you so that you might go and bear fruit — fruit that will last — and so that whatever you ask in my name the Father will give you. - John 15:14-16

Valuable Related Resources

- The Answer, by Randy Pope - Learn More / Buy Now

*Editor's note — this an excellent resource for understanding the gospel and for sharing with your friends and coworkers

- Cain And Abel Sermon by Tim Keller - Listen here

- Take Your Beliefs to Work - Watch / Listen Here

- Made in the Image of God - Read Here

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Howard Graham
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Are you striving to become more independent? Do you think you can independently solve your biggest problems or reach a higher status on your own?

Do you relish working with others and helping other people do well, or do you more often relish doing better than others?

"Pride gets no pleasure out of having something, only out of having more of it than the next person. We say that people are proud of being rich, or clever, or good-looking, but they are not. They are proud of being richer, or cleverer, or better-looking than others. If everyone else became equally rich, or clever, or good-looking there would be nothing to be proud about.”  ― Timothy Keller, The Freedom of Self Forgetfulness

The performance trap leads to the horizontal comparison trap. The horizontal comparison trap sucks the joy from your work and can lead to death. These traps are not new - they have plagued people like us since right after the world began.

The First Workers

We see the problem with individual performance and horizontal comparison in the first few pages of the Bible. Here is the story of the first workers from Genesis Chapter 4:

Now Abel kept flocks, and Cain worked the soil. In the course of time Cain brought some of the fruits of the soil as an offering to the Lord. And Abel also brought an offering — fat portions from some of the firstborn of his flock. The Lord looked with favor on Abel and his offering, but on Cain and his offering he did not look with favor. So Cain was very angry, and his face was downcast.

Then the Lord said to Cain, “Why are you angry? Why is your face downcast? If you do what is right, will you not be accepted? But if you do not do what is right, sin is crouching at your door; it desires to have you, but you must rule over it. ”

Now Cain said to his brother Abel, “Let's go out to the field.” While they were in the field, Cain attacked his brother Abel and killed him.

Then the Lord said to Cain, “Where is your brother Abel?”

“I don't know, ” he replied. “Am I my brother's keeper?” - [.no-reftag]Genesis 4:2-9[.no-reftag]

In this narrative we see work, which was designed for good, become co-opted for selfish gain and personal glory. Work was established by God. Cain and Abel were given unique roles to rule and care for the earth and all its inhabitants. (Genesis 1:26-28 & 2:15)

Abel makes his daily work synonymous with worshiping the God who created him and gave him work to do — revealing how we can work and honor God simultaneously. God recognizes Abel favorably for his work.

The Path To Destruction At Work

Cain instead chooses a path of destruction — revealing the danger of separating our life and work from God:

  • First, Cain separates his work from worship by refusing to honor God with the best of what he had been given. Separating work from our highest purpose leads to futility.
  • Next, Cain compares his work and the results to those of his brother and becomes jealous and angry. Horizontal comparisons lead to a lack of joy and purpose.
  • After that, God communicates directly with Cain and gives him a warning and a path back to joy and purpose. Ignoring God’s word leads to death.

Cain chooses to ignore God’s perfect direction and instead decides to take matters into his own hands — choosing to murder his brother.

All of Cain’s actions are a worthless attempt to gain self significance independently. Cain ignores the love and wisdom of God and does not care to work with his brother. Cain caps off this lesson on the path to destruction by questioning if it is even his job to look out for his brother —- rejecting the design for his life which is to glorify God by ruling the earth and seeking the good of others.

From this we learn much about how we were designed to live and work. However, we will never fully understand how to work if we don’t know the source of our life and His design and purpose for us.

The Answer To Life

The path to a joy-filled life that lasts forever is not about our individual performance. We can never have a life of joy without becoming fully dependent on Jesus.

Randy Pope’s book The Answer provides an incredibly clear description of our problems and the Answer Jesus provides. He explains that there are two ways to relate to God:

There are only two ways to attempt to relate to God. Every religion falls into one of these two approaches. The first is best captured by the word ‘performance.’ We call this religion “DO.” It is based on earning God’s favor or  affection by what we do or don’t do for Him.”

This approach, which summarizes most of the world's religions – including the way we approach our earthly idols — is a self-righteous / self-reliance trap that ultimately leads to death.

Randy Pope provides this incredibly helpful diagram to illustrate the difference in how we tend to relate to God by “doing” works, versus how He intends to relate to us by the works of His Son Jesus, which are “done” for us to have life.

Randy Pope makes it that the path to life starts with God instead of our own performance. The graph explains the purpose of the life of Jesus and how we can accept what He has “done”:

1

It all starts with God. He is Creator and Redeemer through His Son, Jesus. Jesus gives the purest glory to the Father by defining grace as He covers our sin and performance gaps and leads us in His perfect truth.

The Word became flesh and made his dwelling among us. We have seen his glory, the glory of the one and only Son, who came from the Father, full of grace and truth. - John 1:14

2

Abundant life that lasts forever must be received through Jesus. Jesus must be received because He has completed the work. It is “done” through the grace of His life and death and resurrection for us.

For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith — and this is not from yourselves, it is the gift of God — not by works, so that no one can boast. For we are God's handiwork, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do. - Ephesians 2:8-10

3

God so loved the world that He sent Jesus, His only Son, into the world to save sinners  from their own performance. This is the very definition of love.

Greater love has no one than this: to lay down one’s life for one’s friends. - John 15:13

4

Through the grace and love of Jesus we are set free — free to love (John 15:17). The love of Jesus compels us — through faith and gratitude —  to do the same for others (2 Corinthians 5:14-15).

Loving others is the work we are designed and made to do, not in order to earn anything, but instead, as a response to the grace, mercy and love we have already received. This is selfless performance.

Therefore, I urge you, brothers and sisters, in view of God's mercy, to offer your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and pleasing to God---this is your true and proper worship. - Romans 12:1

The Answer To Work

Many of us who trust and depend on Jesus understand that we cannot earn the love of grace and Jesus — they are free gifts from God. Yet somehow, we can forget that our work is also a gift from God.

For we are God's handiwork, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do. - [.no-reftag]Ephesians 2:10[.no-reftag]

When we forget the very source of our life and work, we can end up working for ourselves —  for our own needs, relying on our own strength, in order to satisfy ourselves:

This is the same performance trap that puts us in a downward spiral in life. When we work this way, we have forgotten our design and purpose and instead take matters into our own hands — doing what is right as we see fit (Judges 21:25).

The best way out of the independent performance trap at work is to:

1

Remember that the same God that saves us is the one who commissions our work. Our God is unchanging and provides everything that is good, including our work.

Every good and perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of the heavenly lights, who does not change like shifting shadows. - James 1:17

2

Recognize that the grace of Jesus is a love that never stops. God our Father and Jesus are always working, providing all we need for abundant life and work.

“My Father is always at His work to this very day, and I too am working…For the Father loves the Son and shows him all he does. Yes, and he will show him even greater works than these, so that you will be amazed. For just as the Father raises the dead and gives them life, even so the Son gives life to whom he is pleased to give it. - John 5:20-21

3

Receive the peace that Jesus provides. Jesus saves us not to a life of stress and demands where we must perform, but instead gives us peace that surpasses worldly understanding, he commissions us to do the very same work that He is doing and He gives us the power to do everything — anything — that He commands us to do.

Jesus came and stood among them and said, “Peace be with you!”  After he said this, he showed them his hands and side. The disciples were overjoyed when they saw the Lord. Again Jesus said, “Peace be with you! As the Father has sent me, I am sending you.” And with that he breathed on them and said, “Receive the Holy Spirit.” - John 20:19-22

4

Ask. If your work is full of stress, or lacking purpose, or you are missing the power to do it, it’s likely not what you are supposed to be doing.  How can you be sure what you are supposed to be doing? Ask Jesus. He will give you what you need to do the greatest work to give glory to God.

“Very truly I tell you, whoever believes in me will do the works I have been doing, and they will do even greater things than these, because I am going to the Father. And I will do whatever you ask in my name, so that the Father may be glorified in the Son.” - John 14:12-13

And the glory of it all is that when we work this way together with Jesus, our friend, we will produce fruit that will last – benefiting people now and leading their souls to last in glory with the Father and Son forever and ever.

You are my friends if you do what I command. I no longer call you servants, because a servant does not know his master's business. Instead, I have called you friends, for everything that I learned from my Father I have made known to you. You did not choose me, but I chose you and appointed you so that you might go and bear fruit — fruit that will last — and so that whatever you ask in my name the Father will give you. - John 15:14-16

Valuable Related Resources

- The Answer, by Randy Pope - Learn More / Buy Now

*Editor's note — this an excellent resource for understanding the gospel and for sharing with your friends and coworkers

- Cain And Abel Sermon by Tim Keller - Listen here

- Take Your Beliefs to Work - Watch / Listen Here

- Made in the Image of God - Read Here

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